The formal orientation for the nicu parent group was today. We learned more about what the group does, what our roles can be, and talked about how to be an effective parent advocate. I think I am going to focus on the dinners, bedside visits, and seeing the moms in antepartum.
When we were in the NICU with Little Miss Minion, we looked forward to the bimonthly dinners that were hosted by the group. It was a good chance to get to talk to other parents, meet graduate parents, see the light at the end of the tunnel, and get free food (hey, eating two or three meals a day in the hospital isn’t cheap). We learned a ton of helpful info at the dinners, such as picking primary nurses, how to blacklist a nurse, the little perks of the parent lounge (stocked fridge with juice, milk, jello, and other snacks), and we got a little break from worry.
Bedside visits are another facet to the group. On a purely utilitarian level, bedside visits are the best way to distribute materials like flyers, welcome bags, treats, etc to each child’s parents. On a support level, it’s a great way to interface with the parents and let them know that we are there for them. Their child has a team of people, but the parents often get overlooked, understandably so. We can serve as a backup for the parents, to be cheerleaders for them, to make sure they are handling things ok, to help get resources if they need extra help.
Antepartum visits are the last area that I want to focus on. I was on bedrest for three days in April (I was about 25 weeks) and then for two days right before she was born. Being able to talk to someone who had lived through it and could help navigate the process would have been invaluable. Plus, I was bored out of my mind in April, and talking to anyone would have been a nice break in the monotony. I think talking to the immediately post partum moms would be something I would also like to do. I was so out of it in the days after her birth, it would have been nice to have someone to talk me out of the shock.
I’m excited to see what this new opportunity holds.